Fear of rejection is a big obstacle to creating a lasting relationship
Fear of rejection comes from past hurts of being rejected. Ive seen people carry around rejection fears from seeing other people rejected, so it doesn’t even have to happen to you to affect you deeply.
Until you release this pain or fear that got imprinted into your subconscious mind from past experiences you believe that you will be rejected. What you believe is what you will create. You will always choose people to reject you…In fact if they don’t reject you , will find a way to reject yourself…You’ll come up with something like ,” You don’t really love me, you just love what I do for you”.
Our deeply held beliefs drive all of our behaviors. Many of our beliefs are unconscious and the only way we can identify them is by looking at our behaviors. Strong feelings hold these beliefs in place.
We can change this by going to the memories behind our unwanted actions and then changing the feelings behind them. With the feelings changed the “drivers” are gone and we can imprint new experiences that we’d rather have in their place.
This powerful process for change is called FasterEFT. It is a relatively new process which I find to be really amazing in the results it gets.